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Houston’s Survivors

Renée Danziger*

Born: Renée Rosenberg
March 6, 1927
Sighet, Romania
Died: July 21, 2013

“I don’t ever say, ‘Why me?’ because I know why me, and here I am, one of the very grateful. . . . I have to use the word ‘grateful’ because it describes my life more than anything. I don’t take a moment for granted, and that’s the big lesson we learned.”

Renée Danziger had a happy childhood in Sighet, Romania, “a very nice town with a plaza and beautiful flowers.” Renée’s father, a business owner, supported the family in comfort and her mother, a well-read and refined woman, saw to the children’s cultural and academic education.

In 1940, Romania’s King Carol II was deposed in a bloodless coup. In the economic upheaval that followed, Renée’s father lost his business and left for America. Under the new regime, Jews were singled out for abuse and persecution. Romania fell firmly into Nazi Germany’s orbit, joining the Axis powers in the invasion of the Soviet Union in June 1941. For a time, Renée and her family were interned in a cramped and filthy ghetto. She remembered entire families crowding into one room and children crying from hunger.

At the beginning of 1944, Renée’s family was crushed into an airless boxcar and sent to Auschwitz-Birkenau. Images of the camp haunted Renée. She remembered the grip of the SS officer who tore her from her mother, the sound of her thick braids falling to the ground as she was shorn on arrival and the smell from the crematoria. “There’s one thing I will never be able to get out of my head,” she remarked. The companionship of her friends and her cousin, Yolan Itu, sustained Renée and music comforted her. Sometimes she and the other girls hummed or sang together to blunt their suffering.

Late in 1944, Renée was sent on a forced march to Bergen-Belsen. By the time she was liberated in April 1945, she was comatose and hovering near death. Sent to Sweden to recuperate, Renée “slowly learned to be human again” under the gentle ministrations of the Swedish doctors and nurses. When she regained her strength, she enjoyed going to the opera. Much as music had kept her going in the camps, now it helped her to recover. To her joy, while she was in Sweden Renée learned that her sister Elsa had survived. Her mother and her other three siblings, however, had all perished.

With her father’s sponsorship, Renée came to the United States in April 1946. She struggled to support herself, learn English and shake the stigma of being a refugee, but hard work took a toll; not yet fully recovered from the tuberculosis she had contracted in camp, she collapsed and spent many months recovering once again. When she was well, she settled in Houston to be near relatives. There she met her future husband Benjamin Danziger. They had two daughters, Gail and Leslie, whom Renée unabashedly called “the two most wonderful children any woman has ever given birth to.” In Houston, Renée was active resettling Jewish refugees from all over the world. She was also a tremendously successful fundraiser for the Houston Grand Opera. In 1996, she was honored with the Masterson Award for her longtime support of the opera. “I feel I owe a big debt to music,” she said, explaining her passion and dedication.

Parents
Philip Rosenberg, survived
Gisela Kein Rosenberg, d. Auschwitz, 1944

Siblings
Elsa, survived
Hershel, d. Budapest
Mimike, d. Auschwitz, 1944
Lilike, d. Auschwitz, 1944